BOOTS!

Although it's a new week, I would like to add one more post about shoes. I love wearing boots in all seasons and I get excited every new season because there are so many different styles to wear. I have learned too, that even though I love all boots, some may not work as well for me because of my short height.

If you are short, it is better not to wear flat boots and to wear at least a little heel. If you wear them with a skirt or dress that is below the knee, the boot should be the same color to provide the lengthening effect. Also, even though it is always stylish to wear high boots, shorter people may want to check out booties or ankle boots because they won't make your body look so hidden.

If you have thick legs, try to avoid calf-length boots and ankle boots. Full length boots are more slimming.

Also, be informed about all of the different options. For going out at night, choose sexy ankle boots or mid length suede boots with a heel. There are great day boots to choose from, like cowboy or riding boots. Boots can be worn with every outfit and every occasion. Just like any other shoe, think about what look you are trying to go for and then decide the height, color, and material of the shoe to fit that attitude.

Quick Tip

If you have thick ankles or calves..avoid ankle straps on shoes!

A must have shoe!

Everyone, whether tall or short, must have a pair of stilettos. They are the perfect solution to an outfit to make you feel and look sexy. They can go with pretty much any outfit whether it is a dress, shorts, even pants. With pants, even though the shoe is hidden, they add great length.

Stilettos come in many different styles and come on pumps, boots, and sandals. You can wear these for pretty much any occasion whether it is daily or going out to a club. They really are that extra touch to make you feel special.

I know that many people may stay away from stilettos because they are afraid that they are uncomfortable or hard to walk in, but please try it. I find that the sandal stilettos tend to be a little easier to walk in.

It is just a must to have at least one pair of stilettos because they go with almost any outfit, any season, and make you feel great. Have fun with it and buy a pair that are different, like a gold or sexy black sandal.

Rounded vs Pointed Toed shoes

I usually go for pointy toe shoes because I find them sexier since they lengthen the foot. If it is too pointy you may look scary. Let's just say you shouldn't be buying pointed shoes that look sharp and dangerous. These shoes can also slenderize your foot. They may be harder to walk in so make sure you are comfortable. These shoes go great with are a good pair of jeans.

Round toe shoes work better if you have a medium or tall frame. These do not work as well with a short frame. These shoes go great with a flowy dress or skirt.

If you have long feet it is better to wear round toe shoes because they give an impression of shorter feet. On the other hand, if you have wider feet it is better to stick to a pointier shoe.

If you still can't decide which to wear, it depends what type of look you are going for. A pointier toe is usually more chic and the rounder toe is more dainty and pretty.

Diamonds aren't a girl's only best friend....

SHOES ARE TOO! Shoes are the finishing touch to an outfit and can change your look and the mood you are in at any time. There are all types of shoes that make different statements. Make sure the shoes are appropriate for the occasion.

Let's talk about wedges. The wedge is a great shoe to elongate the foot and make you look taller. They are also good when you have bigger ankles and calves. Wedges are good for a casual dressed up look. They are also for a more summery look. Wedges go with most outfits such as slinky skirts, and bootcut jeans.

Just remember that they are a more casual way of dressing up and be careful not to make them look "unclassy". Try not to wear them with anything too short (not that anyone should wear clothes that are too short). Just think about the occasion and how you want to present yourself and then you should know if it is appropriate to wear wedges.

If you still are not sure....ask away.

Belts!

Belts are a great accessory and can be figure-flattering.

Belts for bigger stomachs: A wide belt around the middle of your waist looks slimming and is best if the fastening is either narrower or wider than the belt strap to give it an even more slimming look. A belt on the hips works well with a tunic if you pull the tunic out a few inches over the belt. An empire waist belt looks good too but it may make your chest look bigger. A darker colored belt is best for this body type.

Belts for skinny frames: medium sized belts or skinny belts look best because it keeps your body in proportion.

Belts for short torsos: Wearing a belt color that is the same as your clothes is more slimming because wearing a belt of another color will just break up the torso even more.

arms

For those of you that think about every part of your body and specifically worry about your arms, there are many ways to feel comfortable about the way you look. If you have broader shoulders or larger upper arms, little ruffles are a good way to hide that or even feminize them more. Try to stay away from tight bands on the sleeves that make your arms look bigger. Also, don't be afraid to wear a pretty dress or shirt even if it shows off too much skin or parts of your upper body that you do not like. You can camouflage with a sweater or even better a shawl.

why work out?

Another great way to hide that little belly is by the use of undergarments that hold it in. Spanx is a great brand that has all kinds of shapers including underwear and tights. Make sure the undergarment you choose fits your body, because if it cuts you off at the wrong place it can make it look worse.

A great secret is wearing SPANDEX SHORTS. You know those bike shorts you bought because you thought you would go biking some day but didn't? Well you bought them for a good reason. They work great because you don't need to worry about underwear lines, they hold in that tummy, and you probably already own a pair. They also work well as a slip if your dress is a little see through.

Looking slim without working out

This week I will talk about different ways to look slim without working out. All you need to do is follow some tips and rules about what clothes will be flattering to your own body and accessories that can help as well. When you are focused on hiding a stomach, there are tricks to choose from. Starting with shirts, too many patterns can draw attention so if there is any pattern try to stick to a look that flows evenly from the top to the bottom, which will carry the eyes away from the stomach. In terms of the shape of your shirt, you will most likely want to accentuate your waist. Easy ways to do this is wear a shirt with an empire waist and shirts that flow at the bottom taking the eye away from the stomach. It's important to understand that wearing baggy clothes in an attempt to hid your stomach, may actually make it look worse.

colors that like each other

It is absolutely fine to wear different colors together. You don't need to just wear a neutral and a color. Certain colors go well together such as yellow and purple and blue. If you were to look at a color wheel you would notice that colors close to each other go with others too. For example since purple and blue go well together, pink would go well with a blue too. Now this doesn't mean go crazy and look like the rainbow, but experiment with a few colors at a time. Also, all shades of one color work great together.

When you are pairing different colors together it looks best if you choose one of the colors in a bolder shade and the other in a lighter shade. For example a navy would go well with a pastel or soft pink.

Again, like I said before, neutral colors like black, brown, tan, and gray go with all colors but try something new!

Personalize your colors

When choosing colors to wear you should think about your skin tone, hair color, and eye color.
For lighter skin-toned: stay away from beige and bland colors because they wash you away
For darker skin-toned: brighter colors look great. Black and white always look good when you're tan but don't forget to add the color somewhere else like in accessories.

For blonde hair I would recommend trying colors other than yellow and use colors that don't make your hair blend in with your shirt.
For darker hair softer colors work better like sky blues, soft reds.

In terms of eyes, clothes can always bring out your eye color. If you have blue eyes, pastels look great and other shades of your eye color.

Quick Tip

Yes..You can wear brown and black together. Try it!

Colors...use them!

If you go into your closet right now and realize that you have discovered your favorite color because everything in there is one color...it's time to do something. If you think that black is the only color you can wear to work or think that black is the only flattering color please think again.

A new color to your wardrobe can really change your attitude about your closet. Whether it's a nice yellow summer dress or a purple top that can be worn with many different outfits, it's a good idea.

Remember: any color can go with a neutral color. Think out of the box and try a color that you normally wouldn't wear and put it with a pair of jeans or neutral color slacks.

Quick Tip

As Stacey London from TLC's "What not to wear"puts it, "your outfit should never match it should go."

Good way to do this is pull out a hint of color from your shirt and wear something else like your shoes that have that color.

Quick Tip

Bored of the bland outfit you have ready to wear in the morning?

Throw on a colorful bracelet or funky dangling earrings. A dash of color can brighten your day but don't get too carried away. Just one or the other will do.

Boost self esteem

It's important to learn how to dress yourself according your own body shape and size. Once you accomplish this you will notice a sense of greater self esteem and feel more confident. This new confidence will serve you well in any situation whether it is meeting a new guy, going on an interview, hanging out with friends, or just feeling good about yourself. There are no exuses for not dressing the part once you learn new tricks and rules about dressing yourself. Hopefully this blog can help you all get excited about wearing clothes whether they are new or old.